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Tag Archives: work life balance
Are You an Introvert?
Take a quiz to see if you are an introvert or an extrovert – a techie or a manager. Continue reading
Posted in Science, Topical, Work and Life
Tagged introvert, life, quiet, Susan Cain, work life balance
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Was Yours, Now Mine
This article is a follow-up to my last post on what was troubling my conscience. This is also a rant on the modern capitalism of the corporate era, where we have all become tiny cogs in a giant wheel inexorably rolling on to nowhere in particular, but obliterating much in the process. Continue reading
Posted in Corporate Life, Philosophy, Work and Life
Tagged capitalism, Corporate Life, money, work life balance
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Ridiculous, Annoying and Embarrassing
When our kids turn 13, we turn ridiculous. How do we handle it? Continue reading
Posted in Humor, Life and Death, Work and Life
Tagged humor, joke, teenage, work life balance
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An Office Survival Guide
Pointers in surviving the corporate jungle. Newspaper column in Today on 14 June 2008.
[...] In the unforgiving, dog-eat-dog corporate jungle, you need to be sure of the welcome. More importantly, you need to prove yourself worthy of it. Fear not, I am here to help you through it. And I will gladly accept all credit for your survival, if you care to make it public. But I regret that we (this newspaper, me, our family members, dogs, lawyers and so on) cannot be held responsible for any untoward consequence of applying my suggestions. Come on, you should know better than to base your career on a newspaper column! [...] Continue reading
How Friendly is too Friendly?
Newspaper column in Today on March 1, 2008.
We all want to be the boss. At least some of us want to be the big boss at some, hopefully not-too-distant, future. It is good to be the boss. However, it takes quite a bit to get there. It takes credentials, maturity, technical expertise, people skills, communication and articulation, not to mention charisma and connections. Even with all the superior qualities, being a boss is tough. Being a good boss is even tougher; it is a tricky balancing act. One tricky question is, how friendly can you get with your team? [...] Continue reading
Posted in Columns, Corporate Life, The Today Paper, Work and Life
Tagged Columns, work life balance
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When the Going Gets Tough, Turn Around!
How to turn around gracefully? Newspaper column in Today on 19 Jan 2008.
Elton John is right, sorry is the hardest word. It is hard to admit that one has been wrong. Harder still is to find a way forward, a way to correct one’s past mistakes. It often involves backtracking. [...] Continue reading
Rumour Mills
On how to handle rumors at the work place. Newspaper column in Today on 27 Oct. 2007
[...] There is a city underground. Parallel to the world of corporate memos and communication meetings, this rumour city trades information, often generating it as needed. [...] Continue reading
Stress and a Sense of Proportion
Newspaper column in Today on 20 Oct. 2007.
How can we manage stress, given that it is unavoidable in our corporate existence? Common tactics against stress include exercise, yoga, meditation, breathing techniques, reprioritizing family etc. To add to this list, I have my own secret weapons to battle stress that I would like to share with you. These weapons may be too potent; so use them with care. [...] Continue reading
Posted in Columns, Corporate Life, The Today Paper, Work and Life
Tagged Columns, work life balance
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Knowledge Silos
Newspaper column in Today on 29 Sept. 2007.
[...] Isn’t there a danger lurking behind our habit of demanding super specialized silos of knowledge? One obvious danger is the loss of synergy and potential innovation. A case in point — a particle physicist at the European Organization for Nuclear Research (CERN) faces the problem of accessing various files on different computers and networks. Being conversant in computing issues, the physicist devices a nice way of describing the file (or, as it is known now, the resource) and suddenly the first URL (Universal Resource Locator) is born. The rest is history — we have the World Wide Web, the Internet. Fifteen years later, you have e-commerce and YouTube! [...] Continue reading
Internet Reading
Newspaper column in Today on 15 Sept. 2007.
[...] In high school, I used logarithm tables to work out results in physics and chemistry experiments. Calculators were not allowed. Though inconvenient, this practice honed my arithmetic skills — skills that calculators and spreadsheets have eroded by now. Similar erosion is taking place in our reading skills as well. We don’t read to retain information or knowledge any more. We search, scan, locate keywords, browse and bookmark. The Internet is doing to our reading habits what the calculator did to our arithmetic abilities. [...] Continue reading
Posted in Columns, Corporate Life, The Today Paper, Work and Life
Tagged Columns, work life balance
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Married to the Job — Till Death Do Us Part?
Newspaper column in Today, 8 Aug. 2007.
Stress is as much a part of our corporate careers as death is a fact of life. Still, it is best to keep the two (career and death) separate. This is the message that was lost on some hardworking young souls here who literally worked themselves to death. So do a lot of Japanese, if we are to believe the media. [...] Continue reading
Posted in Columns, Corporate Life, The Today Paper, Work and Life
Tagged Columns, work life balance
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Spousal Indifference — Do We Give a Damn?
Newspaper column in Today, 28 July 2007.
[...] The conversation between two tired minds usually lacks an essential ingredient — the listener. And a conversation without a listener is not much of a conversation at all. It is merely two monologues that will end up generating one more setback to whine about — spousal indifference. [...] Continue reading
Posted in Columns, Corporate Life, The Today Paper, Work and Life
Tagged Columns, work life balance
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How Much is Talent Worth?
Newspaper column in Today on 21 July 2007 on talent shortage in Singapore.
Singapore needs foreign talent. This need is nothing to feel bad about. It is a statistical fact of life. For every top Singaporean in any field — be it science, medicine, finance, sports or whatever — we will find about 500 professionals of equal caliber in China and India. Not because we are 500 times less talented, just that they have 500 times more people. [...] Continue reading
Posted in Columns, Corporate Life, The Today Paper, Work and Life
Tagged Columns, work life balance
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Performance Appraisal — Who Needs It?
Newspaper column in Today on 14 July 2007.
We go through this ordeal every year when our bosses appraise our performance. Our career progression, bonus and salary depend on it. So we spend sleepless nights agonizing over it. In addition to the appraisal, we also get our key performance indicators or KPIs for next year. These are the commandments we have to live by for the rest of the year. The whole experience of it is so unpleasant that we say to ourselves that life as an employee sucks. [...]
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Handling Goodbyes
First newspaper column in Today, 7 July 2007 (07/07/07
) on handling staff resignations.
Hold on to your pants, your key staff has just tendered his resignation — your worst nightmare as a manager! Once the dust settles and the panic subsides, you begin to ask yourself, what next? [..] Continue reading
How to Live Your Life
If you are not quite sure how to live your life, let me tell you how. Just kidding, it is not my place to decide for you what your life should be. Then again, I can certainly share my thoughts on the issue on my blog, right? Continue reading
Midlife Crisis
On what is important in life. And what is not. Continue reading
Posted in Corporate Life, Life and Death, Philosophy
Tagged Albert Camus, Corporate Life, Philosophy, The Myth of Sisyphus, work life balance
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How to Make Money
Switching from God, philosophy and other higher pursuits, here is a topic close to home. How do people make a lot of money? Can I do it too? Continue reading
Posted in Quantitative Finance, Work and Life
Tagged banking, finance, life, madoff, mon, money, work life balance
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Little Materialists
Do you think kids are more materialistic these days? I think so. And I think I know why. Continue reading
Unreal Stress Reduction Techniques
Stressed out at work? Try these stress-reduction techniques. Well, musings, really… Continue reading
Posted in Columns, Corporate Life, The Today Paper, Work and Life
Tagged Columns, Corporate Life, work life balance
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